If you’re wondering whether she’s attracted to you or not, but you just aren’t able to decode her behavior, don’t worry! Many people find it quite challenging to figure out if someone is actually into them. According to research, your own personal biases and desires can shape the way you interpret the words, actions, and romantic intent of others! So, to find out if a girl is truly into you, pay close attention to the many facets of her behavior instead of overestimating or underestimating her true intent. This will help you decide whether she really IS interested, or if she just ranks you in the “friendzone.”
Number 1 – Eye Contact
According to psychologists, you can learn a lot by how a woman looks at you. After all, the eyes are the windows to the soul, right? So, as a general rule, if a girl looks directly into your eyes and holds that gaze a little longer than usual, or if you catch her checking you out frequently, you can take it as a sign that she is considering you more than just a friend!
Number 2 – Body Language
A really good sign that a woman is attracted to you can be found in her open and forward body language. Often, she will lean in towards you during conversations and there will be less personal space between the two of you. Other body language might include feet pointing towards you, legs UN CROSSED and comfortable, arms open and palms up, playfully fondling with jewelry or hair, smiling and showing teeth, or looking down shyly. On the other hand, if a girl seems closed off or standoffish, with her arms crossed, you can assume that it’s just NOT gonna happen…
Number 3 – Laughing
Researchers have found that the degree to which a woman laughs while talking to a man is pretty good indicator of her interest in him. If a girl likes you, she’ll laugh in all the right places. Hopefully she genuinely finds you amusing and isn’t just working hard to encourage you. But even if she is trying a little too hard, that’s okay. She obviously believes you are worth the effort!
Number 4 – She Touches You
Another way a woman shows that she’s interested in you and attracted to you, is through touch. Now, by touching you, I don’t mean she just grabs your ding dong. But, if there’s an attraction, she will find ANY excuse to reach out and touch your arms, shoulders, or hands. People don’t touch people they don’t like, so if she finds excuses to touch you, be near you, or brush up against you, most likely she’s into you. And the more she touches you, the safer it is to assume she’s interested.
Number 5 – Conversation
If you end up being alone with a girl you like, notice if she seems excited about talking to you. If she does, it’s a likely sign that she’s into you! However, if she keeps looking around, seems bored or keeps checking her phone – that’s a sure sign that she IS NOT interested in you at all…
Number 6 – Her Mouth
To attract a partner, a woman will tend to draw attention to her attributes – especially her mouth! Because a sexual relationship often begins with a kiss, a girl that likes you will subconsciously lure your focus to her lips. So, if she’s thinking about kissing you, then she’ll start to become preoccupied with her mouth. She may lick or rub her lips, or her eyes will more-than-occasionally dart down to look at your lips!
Number 7 – She Doesn’t Like You Flirting With Other Girls
Most women don’t like competition, and a girl who likes you might feel uncomfortable if you flirt with others. She might react openly, or may just slip away – so that she doesn’t have to watch you giving someone else your attention. Think twice before you flirt with other women – because it can backfire! If you consider yourself a ladies’ man, she might lose interest in you real quick.
Number 8 – She Gives You Hints
If a girl likes you, she might drop hints that you can easily decipher. If she says things such as ‘Since I don’t have a boyfriend…’ or ‘Not dating anybody…’
or ‘I’m 100% single’… it could mean that she’s hoping you will take the fucking hint and ask her out already!
Number 9 – Asking Personal Questions
If she spends a considerable amount of time trying to get to know you better, it’s a sure sign that she likes you. Because no woman would waste her time trying to find out what your favorite color is, or what your favorite food for breakfast is – unless she’s genuinely into you. So, if you’re getting bombarded with questions like these, you can assume that she’s showing you the green light. She may also share personal information about herself, which she wouldn’t normally disclose to others.
Number 10 – Texting You
Women have a need to communicate – sometimes to point that it annoys the living shit out of you – but, if a girl texts or calls you out of the blue or frequently, you can bet she is thinking about you! It’s also important to keep in mind that women don’t just give out their phone numbers to any random shmuck they meet. So, if SHE’s the one giving you her number, you can take it as a sign that she’s most likely interested! And where you take it from here, is up to YOU! In closing… If she doesn’t give you any of these signs, then she is definitely not interested in you. No matter much YOU may like her, trust me, she’s not into you. However, if she does give you these signs, then make your move and ask her out!